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Thriving Through the Midlife Unraveling

Renovated Realities Coaching

Navigating the Women's Midlife Journey

The Life Review—does my career and relationship fit who I really am and who I want to be?

Loss of Identity—What did I attach my identity to; my kids, my job, my spouse, my parents, my role...everything has changed.

Coping Mechanisms No Longer Work—Numbing, denying, throwing up walls,'s not working anymore.  I'm ready to get vulnerable, become authentic, and heal. 

Amid change, women often encounter a unique midlife crisis, an unraveling. It's uncomfortable and confusing. It requires getting in touch with yourself, discovering who you really are, making yourself a priority, understanding what you want, healing and finding your peace. It's not really about losing but gaining—gaining wisdom, connecting with yourself, rediscovering passions, and embracing a new sense of self.

Midlife isn't actually a crisis—though it may feel like it; it's an opportunity to transform. If you are ready to turn your transformation into a beautiful story of growth and empowerment, working with a coach is a viable solution.


Ready to bloom? Let's chat!

Online and In-Person Coaching Available

"Where flowers bloom, so does hope."

Lady Bird Johnson


ABOUT ME-Remi Gibbs

Remi has a down-to-earth, easy-to-approach, yet no-nonsense style.  She motivates people to step into their true selves, build fulfilling lives and careers, and make themselves a priority.  In her coaching and writing, she illuminates the pathway for self-growth and living authentically as well as the guidance for walking it. 

Remi has walked the challenging path of midlife. In 2015, she faced the loss of both parents, a complicated relationship, a career shift, and the emotional blow of losing a beloved pet. She wonder's why our mamas didn't teach us about this time of life...the life review and the unraveling, to use Bréne Brown's terminology. 

Her purpose is to help people live their best lives and through Renovated Realities is excited to help women connect with their strengths, rediscover their purpose, navigate midlife transitions and ignite their well-being. 

Coach Remi Gibbs

Veteran and First Responder Spouse

Veteran and First Responder Spouse

Why a Coach Matters:

Amidst the chaos, a coach becomes your compass, guiding you through transitions with expertise and empathy.

Here's how:


Personal Support System: A coach is your ally, providing a safe space to express fears, dreams, and uncertainties. Together, we navigate the journey.

Rediscovering Purpose: Feel lost? A coach helps you identify passions, strengths, and values, paving the way for a purpose-driven midlife.

Navigating Transitions: Career shifts, family dynamics—a coach empowers you to navigate transitions, turning challenges into opportunities.

Self-Care Reinvented: Midlife is about self-discovery and self-care. A coach collaborates with you to create a holistic plan for well-being.

Celebrating Achievements: Every step forward is a victory. A coach celebrates your successes, ensuring you acknowledge and appreciate your progress.

"Remi has been my life coach for more than 2 years and counting. She has coached me in all aspects from relationships to career development, as well as self-care and self-worth. Remi's empathetic, compassionate, wise and professional coaching methods, combining science and spirituality, have helped me to unlock many of the obstacles that had been holding me back for years. She has also held me accountable to my goals and is not afraid to hand me a healthy dose of "tough love" when I've needed it!" ~ Bonnie


Harlingen, Texas

Self-Improvement Column in Inspire Magazine
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