If you’re dreaming about a career change — or even just a shift toward something that feels more meaningful — let me introduce you to one of my favorite concepts: Ikigai.
Ikigai (pronounced ee-kee-guy) is a Japanese word that roughly translates to “your reason for being.”
It’s the beautiful spot where four things overlap:
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What you love
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What you’re good at
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What the world needs
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What you can get paid for
When you find your Ikigai, work stops feeling like a grind and starts feeling like an extension of who you are.
How to Play with Your Ikigai
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Make Four Lists
Sit down and brainstorm:
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What do I love doing?
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What am I really good at?
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What problems could I help solve for others?
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What could I potentially get paid for?
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Look for Overlaps
Notice where your answers start to intersect.
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Experiment and Stay Curious
Finding your Ikigai isn’t a one-time thing. It’s a journey.
Try things out. Volunteer. Take a class. Start a side hustle. Explore — you’re allowed to pivot and adjust as you learn more about yourself.
Why It Matters
Midlife is the perfect time to reassess what you really want from your career and your life.
Ikigai gives you permission to build something meaningful — and yes, something that supports you too.
The best part?
It’s never too late to start.
About Renovated Realities:
Hi, I'm Remi Gibbs — certified life coach, positive psychology practitioner, and author of Renovate Your Reality. I help women in midlife reconnect with their purpose, reignite their passions, and design a life they love. If you're ready to step into your next chapter with clarity and confidence, let's chat! Learn more at www.renovatedrealities.com or follow along on Instagram and Facebook @RenovatedRealities.
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